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Showing posts with label other woman. Show all posts
Showing posts with label other woman. Show all posts

April 8, 2010

Always the Bridesmaid?

I had been corresponding with a guy for a couple of weeks.  He made me laugh and was able to hold his own up in the conversation (even though it was only electronic).  There was no push to move the connection to a more physical medium (phone or meeting) and I wondered about this, but I was letting him set the pace.  I received his reply this morning - after waiting for more than a week - he has met someone and is focusing on that person.  I admire him all the more for letting me know why he was no longer in contact and also for being "faithful" and not "playing the field".  I don't know if there is anything that I should've done differently - but I am a fatalist at heart.  Guess he just wasn't that into me :(

I have only being doing this for a month.  It would be awesome if it worked, but I need to be paitent and positive.  It will happen.

Image from http://www.purevolume.com/listeners/skaterpunkforlife/blog/231989

March 25, 2010

I Couldn't Say It Better



Not Pretty Enough - A Song by Kasey Chambers

 One of the constant theme's in my dating life so far has been that I am "the other woman" and while I WILL NOT get involved with someone who is in another relationship, I wonder why it is that I am always the 2nd choice.  It would be nice to be first choice sometime.  It seems that the only time that I'm first choice is where I don't like the guy in a romantic way (and yes, I see the irony).

The song is worth listening to, but I'm including the lyrics as well:
Am I not pretty enough
Is my heart too broken
Do I cry too much
Am I too outspoken
Don’t I make you laugh
Should I try it harder
Why do you see right through me
I live
I breathe
I let it rain on me
I sleep
I wake
I try hard not to break
I crave
I love
I’ve waited long enough
I try as hard as I can
chorus
I laugh
I feel
I make believe it’s real
I fall
I freeze
I pray down on my knees
I hope
I stand,
I take it like a man
I try as hard as I can
chorus
why do you see
why do you see
why do you see right through me
….
We’re all pretty enough.
And we all try as hard as we can.
I see you.
Let someone know that they are not invisible.